{"id":30688,"date":"2026-05-05T15:15:12","date_gmt":"2026-05-05T09:45:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/devikapuram.com\/?p=21565"},"modified":"2026-05-14T20:03:38","modified_gmt":"2026-05-14T14:33:38","slug":"reasons-to-connect-disconnect-choice-within","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dev.devikapuram.com\/?p=30688","title":{"rendered":"100 Reasons to Connect\u2026 100 Reasons to Disconnect\u2026 Choice is Within"},"content":{"rendered":"

[et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ admin_label=”section” _builder_version=”4.27.5″ hover_enabled=”0″ global_colors_info=”{}” theme_builder_area=”post_content” custom_padding=”0px||0px||true|false” sticky_enabled=”0″][et_pb_row admin_label=”row” _builder_version=”4.16″ global_colors_info=”{}” theme_builder_area=”post_content” background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” width=”100%” custom_padding=”0px||0px||true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”4.16″ custom_padding=”|||” global_colors_info=”{}” custom_padding__hover=”|||” theme_builder_area=”post_content”][et_pb_text admin_label=”Text” _builder_version=”4.16″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” global_colors_info=”{}” theme_builder_area=”post_content”]Actions\u2026 words\u2026 gestures\u2026
\nThey are not the cause.
\nThey are only the\u00a0effect<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

The real source?
\nThe\u00a0quality and direction of our intention and thoughts.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Many times\u2026
\nPeople see an action\u2026 and feel hurt.
\nThey hear a word\u2026 and feel offended.
\nThey notice a gesture\u2026 and feel disrespected.<\/p>\n

And then\u2026
\nThey react.
\nThey point.
\nThey argue\u2026 based on what is visible.<\/p>\n

But what is visible\u2026 is only the surface.<\/p>\n

There are always\u00a0100 reasons to go along with a person.<\/strong>
\nThere are always\u00a0100 reasons to move away from the same person.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The choice is not outside.
\nIt is within.<\/p>\n

A heart that seeks connection\u2026
\nWill find reasons to\u00a0understand, accept, and move closer<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

A mind that is restless or disconnected\u2026
\nWill keep finding reasons to\u00a0judge, hurt, and move away<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Even if you change 100 actions\u2026
\nEven if you correct 100 words\u2026
\nEven if you adjust 100 behaviours\u2026<\/p>\n

If the inner alignment is missing\u2026
\nAnother 100 reasons will be created to stay away.<\/p>\n

Because the issue was never the action.
\nIt was always the\u00a0inner voice<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

So if you truly want to build a bond\u2026
\nDon\u2019t just work on actions or words.<\/p>\n

Pause\u2026
\nObserve\u2026
\nListen within\u2026<\/p>\n

Work on your\u00a0intention<\/strong>
\nRefine your\u00a0inner voice<\/strong>
\nBring\u00a0alignment<\/strong>\u00a0within yourself<\/p>\n

And slowly\u2026 silently\u2026
\nSomething beautiful happens.<\/p>\n

The other heart\u2026
\nWhich was also waiting\u2026
\nBegins to open.<\/p>\n

Connection is not forced.
\nIt is\u00a0felt<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Alignment is not spoken.
\nIt is\u00a0experienced<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

And when two hearts align\u2026
\nWhat follows is not effort\u2026<\/p>\n

It is\u00a0magic<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

– Morning Thoughts<\/strong><\/p>\n

By J Sampath, Founder & CEO of JB Soft System<\/strong>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Actions\u2026 words\u2026 gestures\u2026 They are not the cause. They are only the\u00a0effect. The real source? The\u00a0quality and direction of our intention and thoughts. Many times\u2026 People see an action\u2026 and feel hurt. They hear a word\u2026 and feel offended. They notice a gesture\u2026 and feel disrespected. And then\u2026 They react. They point. They argue\u2026 based […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":30801,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"Actions\u2026 words\u2026 gestures\u2026\nThey are not the cause.\nThey are only the\u00a0effect<\/strong>.\n\nThe real source?\nThe\u00a0quality and direction of our intention and thoughts.<\/strong>\n\nMany times\u2026\nPeople see an action\u2026 and feel hurt.\nThey hear a word\u2026 and feel offended.\nThey notice a gesture\u2026 and feel disrespected.\n\nAnd then\u2026\nThey react.\nThey point.\nThey argue\u2026 based on what is visible.\n\nBut what is visible\u2026 is only the surface.\n\nThere are always\u00a0100 reasons to go along with a person.<\/strong>\nThere are always\u00a0100 reasons to move away from the same person.<\/strong>\n\nThe choice is not outside.\nIt is within.\n\nA heart that seeks connection\u2026\nWill find reasons to\u00a0understand, accept, and move closer<\/strong>.\n\nA mind that is restless or disconnected\u2026\nWill keep finding reasons to\u00a0judge, hurt, and move away<\/strong>.\n\nEven if you change 100 actions\u2026\nEven if you correct 100 words\u2026\nEven if you adjust 100 behaviours\u2026\n\nIf the inner alignment is missing\u2026\nAnother 100 reasons will be created to stay away.\n\nBecause the issue was never the action.\nIt was always the\u00a0inner voice<\/strong>.\n\nSo if you truly want to build a bond\u2026\nDon\u2019t just work on actions or words.\n\nPause\u2026\nObserve\u2026\nListen within\u2026\n\nWork on your\u00a0intention<\/strong>\nRefine your\u00a0inner voice<\/strong>\nBring\u00a0alignment<\/strong>\u00a0within yourself\n\nAnd slowly\u2026 silently\u2026\nSomething beautiful happens.\n\nThe other heart\u2026\nWhich was also waiting\u2026\nBegins to open.\n\nConnection is not forced.\nIt is\u00a0felt<\/strong>.\n\nAlignment is not spoken.\nIt is\u00a0experienced<\/strong>.\n\nAnd when two hearts align\u2026\nWhat follows is not effort\u2026\n\nIt is\u00a0magic<\/strong>.\n\n- Morning Thoughts<\/strong>\n\nBy J Sampath, Founder & CEO of JB Soft System<\/strong>","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[51,2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30688","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-morning-thoughts-by-j-sampath","category-news"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev.devikapuram.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30688","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev.devikapuram.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev.devikapuram.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev.devikapuram.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev.devikapuram.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=30688"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/dev.devikapuram.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30688\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":31717,"href":"https:\/\/dev.devikapuram.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30688\/revisions\/31717"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev.devikapuram.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/30801"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev.devikapuram.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=30688"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev.devikapuram.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=30688"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev.devikapuram.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=30688"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}